tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800030203886930608.post4128088399781065495..comments2020-02-12T06:32:27.324-07:00Comments on Seriously: I am 23 going on 75: Boys & GirlsWonderfulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16968423652225440157noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800030203886930608.post-76757143961478770432009-10-29T13:12:39.964-06:002009-10-29T13:12:39.964-06:00Believe me, they can be just friends.
I have a be...Believe me, they can be just friends.<br /><br />I have a bevy of friends who are women that have never probably even given the slightest thought to fucking me.<br /><br />Which is good, because I'm married.<br /><br />And, back in the day, I only wanted to fuck some of them.Mr. Apronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00176310548094283074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800030203886930608.post-1370266694258833992009-10-29T11:42:56.154-06:002009-10-29T11:42:56.154-06:00Tough question... But I believe boys and girls can...Tough question... But I believe boys and girls can just be friends. Most of my friends are boys and while I had some issues with some of them because there was not just a friendship in the air, with others things never got complicated.<br /><br />I also have male friends since I was a little kid and nothing has changed, we are just friends as we always were:)<br /><br />Nice blog=DSofiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08233662226427218645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800030203886930608.post-14710709934719725672009-10-27T10:03:49.229-06:002009-10-27T10:03:49.229-06:00I definitely think they can, in certain circumstan...I definitely think they can, in certain circumstances... like if you're both happily in relationships.rachaelgkinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18002691394373545956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800030203886930608.post-11264987714343798502009-10-23T17:07:36.545-06:002009-10-23T17:07:36.545-06:00Andi- I like your reasoning, you do need boundarie...Andi- I like your reasoning, you do need boundaries. <br /><br />M- It definitely is rare, but Creighton seemed to be a nice place to meet good guys.<br /><br />Jaime- You raise a good point, it's important to know how you feel, so that you can judge for yourself whether it will work out or not.<br /><br />Taylor- I want more guy friends, even if I'm not capable of just being friends with them ;)Wonderfulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16968423652225440157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800030203886930608.post-53284167074335808992009-10-23T16:27:52.277-06:002009-10-23T16:27:52.277-06:00I didn't have many guy friends when I was youn...I didn't have many guy friends when I was younger, which always bugged me. <br /><br />Nowadays I have a few guy friends I hang out with frequently, although one of those friendships began with mutual attraction. We're both over it now and surprisingly able to remain extremely close. I love him and I seriously tell him everything. There's a few other guys I've been hanging out with that know I'm not 'interested' in them and I know they don't want me. <br /><br />It's perfect. It's totally possible to have guy friends and I loooove it!<br /><br />Have a beautiful weekend, lover ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800030203886930608.post-34639538918585655862009-10-23T10:46:33.858-06:002009-10-23T10:46:33.858-06:00I guess it depends on the people involved. I mean...I guess it depends on the people involved. I mean, I'm capable of purely platonic friendship with guys. One of my best friends is a guy. I'd never date him, but I love him to pieces. We're a lot alike. I've also got a few guy friends, none of whom I feel attracted to in any way. Now, that's not to say they feel the same way. I have no idea how they feel. I only know how I feel.Jaimehttp://thepqnation.com/showandtellnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800030203886930608.post-59888232848960026782009-10-23T08:36:17.286-06:002009-10-23T08:36:17.286-06:00At creighton there were a hellll of a lot of boy-g...At creighton there were a hellll of a lot of boy-girl friendships...but 1/4 of them ended in marriage, 1/4 of them were gay men, 1/4 of them were going to be priests, and i'd be willing to bet in a majority of the last 1/4 of the just platonic friendships at least one person liked the other a little more than they let on. I think its rare that boys and girls can just be friends. Doable, but rare.<br />-mAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800030203886930608.post-85323807833933095632009-10-22T23:46:11.770-06:002009-10-22T23:46:11.770-06:00It's more complex than girlies friendship but ...It's more complex than girlies friendship but I honestly think it's possible. Way harder, but possible. I have some guys in my life I never have love interest with and they never see me like that either. The point is, you have to know that there will always be boundaries and you can't expect to have a relationship like you have with a girl friend. Like, staying past midnight over a weekend alone at home,for example. Ok to do with girl friends but not with guy friends. Gotta choose activities better if you want platonic friendship to work..Andharihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08341293139717998410noreply@blogger.com